Herbert - Spencer, famous educationist, positivism philosopher and sociologist of Britain on later stage of the 19th century, it is a advocate of the thought of modern western education of science, it is ” happy educational law ” Founder.
1,Accompany the child to read for 20 minutes every day. Scientific research shows, the concept that it can’t be equivalent that read in early days and become literate in early days. If know and educate children simply, not only can’t promote their reading, may strangle their interest of reading instead. The expert briefs on: If parents can insist and read with the child for 20 minutes every day, let children enjoy reading in the kindred, the child will learn to read, love and read unconsciously, can also develop their thought ability, language ability and communication ability.
2,Lead the way for the child with the interest. Every child will demonstrate the special interest to some targets. When they become interested, the good opportunity educated that that is to say. A lot of children seem to have no activity of any meaning, can all in fact lead them to obtain new knowledge, method and habit beneficial to the child from it. God son’s rule: Model’s rule, the rule of seeking common ground while reserving difference, consequence rule, structural ruling, ruling of 20 yards, hoping for the rule, management rule, sound rule.
3,Curiosity will not be produced without foundation. Trigger the child’s curiosity and make some suspense for him appropriately, it is the key point that the parents guide the child. It needn’t make a fuss to educate child’s criticism of others.
4,The desire to excel is the motive force advanced. The key that the competition wins the victory lies in the capability, and should improve the capability, the more important thing is to surmount oneself. Spencer pays attention to the characteristic of development according to the childlike innocence, through the successful experience, adopt the method that they accept, train their desire to excel actively. Let children learn to listen attentively to conscientiously, no matter what kind of criticism. Seeking to do others down will dare to face and fail. Seeking to do others down should concern oneself with facts and not with individuals.
5,Confidence is a happy source. The child’s self-confidence needs the encouragement from parents even more besides encouraging oneself. Capable might not succeed, but confident to create the condition succeeding and succeed finally.
6,Train the child’s independence. Let children learn to take care of oneself. Let children choose, organize the game partner. Encourage child tempering one’s willpower in the difficulty. Trust children to finish some tasks. In fact each child is so, the more parents say he is clever, the cleverer he is. Offer children harmonic and happy atmosphere in the family. If I can’t give children wealth, then give him the confidence of looking for the wealth; If I can’t give children intelligence, then obtain confidence of intelligence for him, if I can’t replace the child’s life, then give him the confidence of life.
7,Used to beginning to train while as a child. Infant period in child, help them to form the good basic habits and customs, this point is as important as child to parents. The good habit can promote the child’s growth, obtain knowledge better, develop intelligence. Forming the good habit should start from bit life and minor matter.
8,Painting is the happy self-education course. Painting is really a part that intelligence is educated, especially in the child’s early education. Whether however, can really utilize painting to open the child’s observation ability, depict ability, color to perceive and perceive ability with the space, need appropriate method. Look for chance for child’s painting as much as possible, this is not merely child’s self- joyful course, the more important thing is to train children’s outsight, memory, imagine strength and creativity through drawing, improve children’s quality.
9,The psychology determines everything. The positive psychology is that each child can train, no matter how the child was in the past, too no matter how parents’ situation, makings and intelligence are, according to positive thinking, you can train the child to be a positive person.
10,Young parents all have such experience: The child begins at the age of three to be not obedient after reaching two, often answer back, speak the irony to parents, but does not know what reason it is. In fact this is the inevitable stage in child’s psychological development course, ” first resistance issue ” called psychologically .
11,Train children to stand high and aim far soon while as a child. Create a good family atmosphere of encouraging children to grow up healthy and sound for child. Pay attention to training the child’s self-esteem. Read to Shi MingZhi. Temper the will, form dogged diligently, indomitable good quality, supervise children to learn to be strict with oneself in daily life.
12,Train the child’s happy personality, the necessary restriction child’s material occupies wanting, close with the emotion between the children, chance and right of offering children decision, will keep the happiness and harmony of the family, parents should teach children how to adjust the psychological condition.
13,Suit the remedy to the case, let children give up wilfully. The child is wilful, is mostly the trouble that parents are used to out. So parents want to correct one’s own education thought, correct one’s own behavior of yielding to. The wilfulness will make people do the wrong thing, will be rebuffed, will become the persona nongrata in the collective, influence and progress finally.
14,Educate child use happy method compare with atmosphere other method effective. The purpose of education is to let children become a happy person, education means and method should be happy. When the child is in happiness, it will be easier, opposite at depressed, nervous state to study anything, his confidence will be weakened, there is not any method even if it is the greatest educationist in the face of them at this moment.
15,Educational lesson of the compulsory setback. Parents should let children stand the tempering of respects such as some difficult physical stamina, life, psychology,etc. consciously, i.e. setback education. The colder it is, the more let the child wear few clothes; Road surface many stone have, let child mere foot; Being the richer, parents the less give children too much pocket money. This kind seems to be the unnatural method in ordinary person’s eyes, but can yet be regarded as a rational education way, it is nowadays new educational way in which domestic and international modern education praises highly very much too.
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